I want her to be safe and happy. Watched videos. Can’t take him out without being on super high alert. Can you decide that for the next few days you’ll do all you can to just enjoy this perfect kitten? Another couple were also interested in adopting Diamond. After 2 failed adoptions, Bella ended up with Ruth who loved that dog like no tomorrow. She listened and then very wisely said, “I think you’re going through a transition. You thoughtfully chose where to find your new dog. The puppy is a typical puppy. But he only knows a few commands. We are going on 2 monthd and in so many ways he is a great dog. I love her so much but she is causing me so much stress and anxiety I’m having a hard time functioning. Ninety-nine percent of them have gone on to have long and happy relationships with their new family members. Not a dog but I brought home a new kitten to add to the menagerie just about three days ago and I’m going through the “what the heck was I thinking” stage. We had no idea what we had gotten ourselves into. Many of my friends have dogs, I talked to them, thought I did my research and felt prepared. I gave my baby back today. I am so sorry my sweet boy. He loves this dog, but he loves you too, right? I have had several ‘second hand’ dogs. So, of course, I do all the reading about those breeds (and work through my anxiety over suddenly having a pit bull and not knowing which side to believe when it came to that controversy – I’ve made my peace with that! So my boyfriend said that we would have her. You might have been patient, worked with behaviorists and trainers, and done all the right things, but you still can’t cope. She’s miserable for five months of the year. She was a stray and they didn’t know much about her past. No dog gate, no closed door, no creative barricade of heavy boxes piled high stopped him if he was determined to get around it. Take it for walks. I’m not sure if this will get better or if this is just a sign that maybe we didn’t make the right decision for her in adopting her. But it’s amazing how life changes when you no longer worry that your dog might hurt someone. He continued to grow and get bigger and stronger. I am on the dreaded day 3 and can’t count the number of times I have cried. Our first indication that she might have some issues: the windshield wipers swished once in the car on our ride home from the shelter and she became UNGLUED! She’s overall really well behaved and lovable. medical records. So we went to a couple adoption events, we did visit the animal shelter but every morning there would be a lineup of people outside the shelter wanting to adopt a dog so I knew those dogs always had a good chance of getting adopted. Update: We returned our puppy to the rescue, they were very understanding. I’m not suggesting you need to go that far, but be sure that you take the dog out a least once before you decide to bring it home. To our surprise, he’s 40% American Staff, 40% German Shepherd and 15% Belgian Malinois and 5% who knows. But I never saw a dog try harder to fit into a family than this Golden. The second time, four years ago, we were assured the dog was good with cats. Why does my dog sleep with its head on my neck. I happened to have a doctor appt. We went without a dog until 3 weeks ago, when we heard about a Pom who just turned 3 who needed help. What kind of person would I be if I ended up giving him back? Luckily we got “bad vibes” from Mr Bootcamp and found a Vet Behaviorist and we also found a wonderful R+ trainer. Hello everyone, this is my first post on this forum - I'm hoping to get some advice about my cat adoption-regret. Don’t get a puppy, get an adult dog who’s already been part of a family. Prevent chasing cats all you can; that’ll be a longer term challenge but very possibly fixable. They walk and lay on the couch together. Start laughing at everything and anything if you can. I live with a roommate in an apartment, but she is gone all day at work and I work from home 90% of the time. So I got Bella back. my other problem is when we travel is very expensive to leave them. Eventually she and our beagle wind up howling extensively after starting out with barking. They need time to adjust, you need time to adjust and sometimes it can be weeks or months before you’re settled and bonded. It may not have been a problem with the foster home, whom lived in a house with a large, easily accessible backyard. We’d take it up the hill and get it into the dead wood pile (aka The Perfect Home for Rabbits, who say “Thank You Very Much”) except the other downed trees are blocking the farm road that gets us there. Praise. The puppy is overall well behaved and seems to be quite smart. If your dog came from a rescue center, remember that they will have spent time in an environment that’s chaotic even in the very best centers. Fast forward to COVID-19 and we have a lot of time at home. Glory actually received her AKC Canine Good Citizenship certificate and all I could was sit and laugh remembering all we had been through to reach that point. He is approx 1 yr old GSD poss husky. I’m not suggesting you need to go that far, but be sure that you take the dog out a least once before you decide to bring it home. Was not informed of them all at the time. Breathe. Also on the subject of treats, he has ben pretty good at doing things for reward. I feel like she deserves a home with a yard and other dogs to play with when her energy hits. It makes us very wary of shelters, although I would certainly continue to get cats from them. My beloved cat died due to a car months ago, it was a shock to me cause it was my baby. Yesterday I brought home a 2yrs old husky and I have regrets already, I have so much anxiety and I don’t know why, she’s a lovely dog, friendly loving, but the probelm is she constantly wants to be with me and follow me around. We have an appointment with a local trainer coming up and I can’t wait. I watch her on the camera and my anxiety increases the more unsettled she is. I am battling with myself everyday! I would have always wondered what became of him and felt guilty for giving up on him. She did. Dogs barking all around, enclosed in a cell block, limited time outdoors, with no extended human contact. Plenty of cats have happily rehomed, including one of my own when my allergies worsened. I sound like the most shallow uncaring person ever–I realize what I sound like. I enthusiastically support wanted behavior. Then, I had another situation that made me be for the first time in my life, really alone. I knew dogs were a big responsibility and a lot of work, and I thought I was ready but now I’m really unsure and I feel really stupid for trying. She and I have a bond born from trials and tribulations that couldn’t be stronger or deeper. Sending you a hug, because it’s okay. Someone who uses positive training techniques will be able to help you address any unwanted behaviors if you’re willing to put in the work. Sadly, several months later we learned that he had developed severe prostate cancer and had to be euthanized. I still am. Double-guilt for me because the foster family was so happy for us all, and we became connected through a mutual close friend… I feel like I’m letting everyone down. I gently correct unwanted behavior. They were able to meet on a walk outside, but it was late, cold, and dark so they certainly did not get the ideal “neutral” introduction. He’s going to get along great with other dogs, and I’ve dodged that bullet.” I thought we have found just the right dog to add to our family and how lucky we were. Know that dogs do eventually adapt and that if you rehome them responsibly, they will find another home that’s a good fit for them Write a letter for your dog’s new family sharing special memories and information. Also, because he is so scared of people generally, the vet put him on anti anxiety medication. I’ve read countless books and articles. Any holistic vets who do Chinese medicine or Herbal medicine? I have crated her (4-5 hours) and she has gone in the crate, even for a shorter period she has gone in the crate. To Ali re your pittie: Wowser. When I met her, it was instant love. I’m a member of a group for people who have rescued Salukis and Saluki crosses. She actually broke out the wall of her crate, she would have diarrhea in her crate and all over the house. I have not stopped crying. Such an overwhelming feeling! Everything he knows and all of his habits have been turned upside down. If I say no assertively he seems to respond with more unruliness. Sometimes its not the right fit. I’m so relieved I came across this post and have felt really comforted reading everyone’s comments and feeling that I’m not alone. And oh yes yes yes, regrets after months? She growls at our beagle if the beagle gets too close to a Kong toy, and she makes our beagle cry when she’s too rough when trying to play, but otherwise they get along all right. When I came back there was much destruction at the entry points: blinds, molding, door, etc. Am I doing him a disservice by keeping him? I was honestly surprised the foster family was so okay with this and was possibly given a false sense of security by their being okay.) But I had such a melt down when I placed her in the bathroom for not even 10 minutes and she destroyed the floor by the door, trying to get out. Cut to 4 days later. We brought home a rescue dog and I’m not so anxious because he barks at people walking by the house or us when we come in the door but calms down right away. My sadness is more for my resident dog. When he would jump and bite in excitement, I would massage his back and caress his chest, telling him at the same time that this was hurtful to me. She’s the best but I think I should have listened to my husband. He’s a tabby point siamese with what I’m expecting will become a medium long coat. Welcome to an ongoing inquiry about the behavior of people and dogs. Patience and compassion towards your adopted dog – and a good behaviorist – can often turn a difficult rehoming into the joyful experience most of us hope to have with our four-legged family members. They’ve had their questions answered and been given as much support as they’ve needed to help their dogs (and themselves) settle. Ten minutes later a guy in a red pick up drove straight into the tree at 55 mph, even though the road was clear for at least 300 yards and you couldn’t miss the monster tree blocking your path if you tried. In the end, I almost always wind up with a wonderful dog that gets adopted to a great home. Then in 2017 we adopted a 1 year old lab mix who definitely has a few (relatively minor) issues, but is a great dog overall. My husband is supportive of me and has said if I want to keep the dog that is what we will do. They knew I didn’t have a yard or experience. You are Wonder Woman, Heroine, Dog Lover Extraordinaire. I did take her for a walk before I left today and can’t imagine what I will find when I go home. Dog returned ~ 2 weeks – complete loss of $. Talk about a rock and a hard place. But he had already claimed a place in my heart that would always be his. On the flip side, when she’s calm, she’s affectionate and a joy to be around. Anytime my daughter brought her son to the Sanctuary, he and Diamond would spend the whole time hanging out. I fostered for a rescue and successfully placed 45 dogs over several years. It often takes a dog like the one you have at least two-three weeks to settle in even the slightest bit. There are times when I wonder whether I am doing the right thing but I never regret rescuing her from a life of beatings and loneliness. I’m also one of those people who has always felt that a pet becomes family and you don’t just give them up. I haven’t been able to eat or sleep properly in days, and I’m exhausted. One thing we do not share, she likes to sleep in . But they’re notorious for needing a ton of exercise and mental stimulation and for being sensitive dogs. Plus they’re incredibly grateful to find loving homes and will repay your love a thousand times over. What kind of a bitch wife would say no? I was talking to a trainer friend of mine who observed his mental state and physical state do not align. ), her separation anxiety seemed to get worse, and generally showed her very high energy. We’d love to take him places, but right now he just can’t handle it. Here’s to hoping the trainer can help him and help us! We did a meet and greet which went well, and then a two night sleepover to see if this would be a good fit. That should tell you enough about the false pretenses under which we adopted Olive. You see, the message here is that when one is given unconditional love, it always brings out the best in us and we feel this indomitable desire to give it back. What the heck have I done? Wouldn’t dream of touching him in the dark for example. She now sleeps all night and isn’t bothered too much about coming upstairs. I literally could have written all of it myself minus the cat. Saying that the training is hard and continous and we are getting close to him being 10 months soon but I fully expect to continue the formal training for another year. Everything is so perfect. Do your research Have a large, boisterous family? We’d never had a dog before (my last one was when I was a teenager and if I’m honest don’t think we were great dog owners… I sure didn’t do much caretaking) …But I love my friends’ dogs, I’ve envied the companionship I know they provide, and I thought my kids deserved to know the love of a dog. It’s the same with dogs. He was not a carefully considered addition he simply has the potential to be too fine a cat to pass up. Work with a behaviorist It’s always worth engaging a behaviorist when you first bring the dog home to make sure they have the best possible transition. I also feel that we kept her due to guilt rather than any other reason. I think you are wise to keep her out of dog parks, but perhaps, one day, you might find a dog that she does do well with. Hate dogs that shed? I’m also super nervous that he wouldn’t want an apartment and we are moving Dec 1st so even if he gets okay with this apartment and coming into here, what about the new one? This is particularly hard for me since I have worked in dog rescue for several years and know how hard it is for dogs to be surrendered. I’m in therapy for this already but I’m also sad because A) my cat can’t come into the living room right now and I miss her B) I feel like some of my freedom is gone and C) I feel like I won’t be able to take this dog anywhere because he doesn’t want to. He knew I had treats in my hand and instead of doing what I asked to get the treat, he just tried to get the treats out of my hand – forcibly. If you don’t think you’ll ever recover enough to care for your dog, then rehoming is an option. One of the main problems seems to be that Ela can’t stand Miette and Max playing roughly together. Following his recovery from the virus, two other families tried to rescue him but brought him back to the vet clinic – one after 9 weeks of trying. The only thing you have to fear is fear itself. Unfortunately, she’s not interested in fetching. Certainly not. They can come with trauma from previous experiences that you need to help them get over. They really fought 3 times and last week Miette pulled out one of Ela’s canines because I made a mistake and they ended up in the kitchen together for a few seconds. Your previous experiences with dogs will, to some degree, shape your expectations from the new dog as will any information you’ve received from the adopting rescue center/agency and your general knowledge of dog breeds. I have to say this go round has been the most seamless introduction I have ever had. She’s never lived in a home before (former breeding dog with a home breeder who took decent care of the dogs). But he does tire of them a bit. Gets to ho outside at least 2-3x a day – usually more. Have I given up on her? I have never known such pain as this, my parents are divorced and Stella was the only constant comfort I had in my life, every time we went from house to house she came with us. Who IS this dog, anyway? to that woman’s life. Day 1 was amazing she was cute and cuddly, appeared house trained and is amazing in the crate slept through the night and everything. He would not settle and constantly chased from window to window. If there’s any initial thoughts you could give me I would be most grateful. I just got a puppy from a rescue about 10 days ago. I’m still wracked with anxiety and worry. Woudl a different set of more experienced and perhaps authortative dog-owners be best for him? So every couple of months Bella came to be groomed and Ruth and I would have lunch! I need to give us time three days, three weeks and three months and I think we will all be feeling better. I couldn’t handle one right now, and if you can’t find enough ways to get yourself some rest, there’s nothing wrong with deciding that another home would be best for him. It was expensive & I had to make some major life style changes to the budget, but I saw consistent positive changes happening. The rescue allowed us to have a trial period with the new dog. Well, that’s not exactly how it worked out. That maybe I’m not cut out for dog ownership. We’ve tried four different anti-depressants. He’d been rehomed for a week and brought back and he was utterly bewildered, so I felt like I owed him my very best efforts. Our older boy has ADHD and is constantly snapping his fingers and whistling (stimming behaviours, normal for ADHD), and this excites the dog we fear too much. Our elder boy took six months to start leaving behind his awful past and to start really bonding with us. And again at about 5am. Sometimes it is downright heartbreaking, but if you know in your heart that it’s the right thing to do, don’t beat yourself up about it. hard. She came into the kitchen from the bedroom where she had been sound asleep, and got in her bed while I worked in the kitchen. However, his situation there would be terrible as they don’t have the resources we have here. I’ve learned so much from her and I like to think she found the perfect home with us. It’s all pretty raw still, and I’m sad and have tremendous guilt. It is really not fair to say he is a rescue, in the sense that we were not really taking on any huge challenges with him. We adopted her after she gave birth (6 beautiful and health pups). Perhaps we’re not the right fit for him and vice versa. She was a star in class though. I am trying to only be positive and show him love. Why is My Dog Lethargic and Not Eating or Drinking? And I truly do love her. After our first Golden died, we rescued an almost two year old golden, not through a rescue organization. In early March, my husband started to push for another dog. Give yourself time to grieve the loss of your dog once they’ve been returned. As founder and editor of PetCarrierVerdict.com, I combine my passion for animals with expert advice to bring you articles that will make you a better, happier pet owner. The cat was our original animal so we said, if it doesn’t work out, the dog goes….riiiiiighhhhtt…….How long do you think that lasted? I’ve thought about returning her to the rescue, but feel fear of what others may think and how this would affect her. Thanks for posting so I could read others stories, and while I still feel some guilt and shame, and wonder if I could have pushed through and come out the other side with a wonderful companion, this has helped me see that sometimes it’s also just not a match and I should trust that. She is a specialty pup and she is missing a paw and I feel so worried if I did rehome that she wouldn’t have a family that would want to deal with her missing a paw. They're characterized by sadness, anxiety, and other difficult feelings after adopting a young dog. Keep me posted, paws crossed for you. Since then though he’s revealed some serious leash aggression and growling at the slightest noises in my apartment building (which, inconveniently, is full of dogs that we encounter on every walk). You are experiencing an especially intense version of “what have I done?” Syndrome. I wish I could see a happy ending for everyone, but I can’t. haha. Sometimes I get the easy dogs. Luckily the other owner quickly grabbed my dog but i felt horrible. Chances are there is a great dog out there for you! That’s unlike what happened the next morning when Jim and I were chain sawing and brushing. I’m also worried about being alone though, as I love his company. That’s when we found out she was a Basenji Hound/mix because she would yodel and scream so loud that my neighbors would call me at work because they were worried about her. We are only 3 weeks in and it has been so much more difficult than I ever imagined. It looks tiny, but I’d guess at least 1,000 pounds of tree fell from it. My heart hurts so bad and I am not sure that I made the right decision. He is sleeping a lot. And looking forward to my husband coming home from work! He dug tunnels in our garden. Sorry–sometimes the answer is simple. A human one. I don’t expect any answers here… but needed to pour this out. Thankfully I now have the strength to forgive myself for a possible poor choice and that my first dog and sanity have to come before my issues with rehoming. We adopted Sita, 10months old, 3 weeks ago. I see a lot of people having regret in the first days or weeks, but it seems like it is less common after a few months? (PS – all dogs need walks, however large or small they are. Of course we were not going to allow Bella to just return, so Dr. Deb, Ruth, Bella, and I met at Ruth’s apartment and Ruth got a big dose of how to handle Bella, what to do and not do, and Ruth said when it was time for Bella to be groomed, she would drive 70 miles to my groomer. You might be facing a serious illness and you don’t think you’ll be able to care for your beloved dog. Give him time to familiarise himself with his new surroundings and to start the bonding process with you. The first thing I did when reading this post for only a moment was laugh. Honestly girl, you have no reason to feel guilty at all. I wish there were a support group for new adopters. I don’t want to give her up but I also am not sure I can care for her adequately on my own. If they’re honest, I would think she might be unadoptable. I’m not really sure what to do. Another example: everybody loves Collies. Or a family that can constantly pay attention to her instead of someone like me who has to focus on work while she just sits there a majority of the day. Unfortunately we didn’t thoroughly read the medical records prior to adopting the dog. Get a dog that enjoys that kind of thing. Trisha, it’s honestly gut-wrenching! Her new Mom felt Panda was “sent” to her. Doing your homework and making sure you get the right dog for your circumstances goes a long way too. We call her Lark. I’ve read all your comments, some of them over and over again to be honest. We agreed to adopt her because we were worried that the next family that came along wouldn’t be able to help her, either. You wake up on day three and think “Holy #%&! We drove two hours each way, six times over a four-week period before we brought our younger dog home. Thank you very much for this kind post that addresses what we humans are experiencing during this transition. Get a dog that enjoys that kind of thing. Patience and compassion towards your adopted dog – and a good behaviorist – can often turn a difficult rehoming into the joyful experience most of us hope to have with our four-legged family members. We were also in group training around that time and were very lucky that one of the trainers also offered to have a private session with us to back up these learnings. I am having just a terrible time. But I’m experiencing so much doubt. I think a lot of my anxiety is he isn’t my previous dog. A canine that loses their lust for life, and will not eat…, Owners often find that dogs are restless and pace about when they want your urgent attention. Related read: Why Won’t My Dog Make Eye Contact with Me? and what if my husband is someone that wants dogs? She’s a puppy, I get that. I hadn’t raised a puppy in many years. We seem to have found a common language. I’m a dog lover and a rescue advocate, and know so many people with multiple dogs who say it’s the best decision they ever made. Every dog we’ve had was “easy”. Our drive home from the vet clinic went really well (despite it being a 5 hour journey). Related read: How to Keep a Dog from Escaping the Yard When I finally recognized it, got myself in hand and calmed down, there was a noticeable improvement in his behavior. She is the best dog I have ever lived with — smart as a whip, easy to train, gentle, good with other dogs and great with people of all ages. Me “y Border Collie Willie could never, even live safely with your son, and for his sake alone (not to mention my son’s), I’d find him a new home. I’m reading many posts online where this does happen…. Even if you haven’t already done that, it’s never too late. Don’t keep living like this, life is hard enough! Her fear of cars has resulted in me either dragging her down my apartment stairs to pee or trying to compromise and keep her inside for longer than I should. My beloved boy climbed into that stranger’s truck with no idea what was awaiting him. I try to redirect with “leave it”, but it feels like it’s a constant thing that I have to do. We stupidly (?) Here are a few things might help. After talking with my trainer friend and with the rescue, I took her back. You have a quirky, fun, well-behaved new dog who gets along with your beloved Ivy. Ruger has been with us almost 2 months and he is a completely different dog! Right now she does go to some daycare, but not everyday (really that shouldn’t be how a pet is part of a family anyway should it?). She appears to be suffering with separation anxiety. In a way all the struggles we have survived together have been what bonded us when at first they threatened to prevent it. I knew every little detail about him. We work on “watch me”. Our second boy was an Old English Sheepdog X GSD. My back says at least a ton. But for the next several years, if we keep the dog, I don’t think I’ll be able to keep my anxiety and fear at bay; and I know that dogs are very attuned to emotions. People have come out from their backyards to see what I’m doing to my dog because it sounds like he’s being abused. ... Now I regret telling you to play with them, maybe you would have continued barking at them and they wouldn’t have taken you if I hadn’t done that. Dog sitters. Related read: Why Won’t My Dog Make Eye Contact with Me? Thank you for giving me some direction. You might be facing a serious illness and you don’t think you’ll be able to care for your beloved dog. How timely. Thank you for your post it has really resonated with me. They don’t know any of the rules, they pee in the house, they chew everything, they teethe with their needle-sharp teeth, they annoy the elderly cat, they scratch your furniture, hide your keys, and yap in excitement. Around the other dogs at the event, he was interested but not disruptive and it was clear that his only interest was being snuggled (which was our main interest too)! People around me we surprised. This was great advice, especially since we had a garden for him to toilet in. If you can’t cope with that, don’t get a collie or a collie-cross. Also here she us integrating well and fast. Your previous experiences with dogs will, to some degree, shape your expectations from the new dog as will any information you’ve received from the adopting rescue center/agency and your general knowledge of dog breeds. Turns out, she was only crate-trained at their house and, although I did a few short trial runs leaving her loose in the house (no other options for her safety) without problems, on Day #4 (not #3, ironically :), I had to leave the house for an hour. Knew within a few days it wasn’t a good fit — this pup needed a more active lifestyle. What I can say is that all the things you being up… rehoming, your desire to travel, are nit deal breakers. Can be a bit confusing. My mental health has also been horrible during COVID, so I figured getting this kitten would also double as an ESA! 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